Am I loved? pt. 2

I love personality quizzes. I mean that is one of my favorite things to do online! So you can probably tell I was really excited to get to write this quiz for everyone. So grab a sheet of paper and a pencil and lets get started...

Here is how this quiz is going to work, there are basically 7 main love languages (I bet you thought there were only 5 ;) Each multiple choice question has its answers in letters (e.g. R, M, C etc.) write down your letter of choice and at the end of the quiz find out your top 3 letters. These will be your 3 main languages.

1. Choose three words that describe you the most:

• compassionate..................................R
• efficient..............................................S
• assertive............................................M
• quiet/reflective.................................C
• generous............................................G
• busy....................................................D
• optimistic...........................................I
• none of these......................................X

2. You enjoy doing the following activities (pick your top 3)

• listening to the concerns of others................................................R
• leading and delegating..................................................................S
• initiating change and starting new activities...............................M
• talking with family of friends........................................................I
• reading and studying.....................................................................C
• entertaining frequently..................................................................G
• working on projects and do-it-yourself activities.........................D
• none of these..................................................................................X

3. When talking face to face with someone, you frequently make physical contact beyond just initially shaking hands (hugging, patting on the back, placing a hand on the shoulder, touching the hand or arm several times, holding hands.)

• yes..................R
• no....................X

4. You enjoy talking and long conversations, even when no action is taken or expected from it.

• yes................I
• no..................X

5. Whether watching TV or talking on the telephone, you usually do things with your hands (rearrange things, continue working on a project or task that was started before the conversation began).

• yes...............D
• no.................X

6. You often enjoy taking risks and doing something new or bold.

• yes............M
• no...............X

7. You are prepared for invited and uninvited guests and make sure both feel welcome.

• yes almost always...............G
• no...........................................X

8. You enjoy researching little known facts, details, and information.

• yes......................C
• no........................X

9. You set and define high goals, expectations, professionalism, and accountability for yourself and others.

• yes.................S
• no...................X

10. If you had to choose one word to describe yourself, you would say you're... (choose only one!)

• practical..................................D
• adventuresome......................M
• none of these..........................X

11. You usually... (choose only one!)

• stay on top of details...........................................................................................S
• take action only after much thought and careful consideration....................C
• give much thought to the financial needs of others.........................................G
• none of these.........................................................................................................X

12. Usually you... (choose only one!)

• tend to be emotionally sensitive to others.................................................R
• start and continue conversations with anyone and everyone.................I
• none of these..................................................................................................X

13. At home, work, and socially, you voluntarily do whatever you see that needs to be done.

• yes...............D
• no.................X

14. You are usually surprised when you hear or discover negative things about someone.

• yes.........................R
• no...........................X

15. You may seem rigid and judgmental because you expect high standards and a strict code of conduct of yourself and others.

• yes.............................M
• no...............................X

16. You are usually laid back during problems or arguments.

• yes....................C
• no......................X

17. You tend to make quick decisions.

• yes...........................I
• no.............................X

18. You keep gifts and cards on hand to be prepared for any occasion.

• yes.................G
• no...................X

19. You enjoy planning and organizing both short- and long-term goals for your life and like others to do the same.

• yes.......................S
• no.........................X

20. You are... (choose your top 3)

• warm.................................................R
• focused..............................................S
• responsible........................................G
• conscientious.....................................D
  
• creative..............................................I
• logical..................................................C
• direct...................................................M
• none of these.....................................X

21. You express your ideas and opinions, whether they ask me or not.

• yes......................I
• no........................X

22. You are adventurous and often seek change for the sake of change.

• yes................M
• no..................X

23. It is important and necessary for you to have regular time alone and be apart from others.

• yes...................C
• no.....................X

24. You give gifts and share your hospitality regardless of my means and resources.

• yes................G
• no..................X

25. You often find yourself in key leadership roles and handle responsibility well.

• yes....................S
• no......................X

26. You routinely and regularly complete tasks started by you or asked of you and enjoy it.

• yes............D
• no..............X

27. You are easily moved by the hurts and joys of others.

• yes.................R
• no...................X

Answer Key:

R stands for Responder
I stands for Influencer
S stands for Strategist
C stands for Contemplator
G stands for Giver
D stands for Doer
M stands for Mover

Now count up your letters (e.g. 5 S's, 7 G's) Your top 3 are your main love languages. In my next post I will do into depth on the first couple languages.

I'd really appreciate commenters to say what languages they are so that everyone can see the variety of combinations in the world.